Pitru Paksha is a special occasion in which the Hindus pay reverence in offering the deceased family members, which is also known as Pitrus. It is usually in the month of Bhadrapada from the full moon day, or Purnima, to Amavasya, or new moon day. This is the time when Hindus observe several processes, popularly known as Shradh, and pray for their relatives who are already dead. It is believed that performing these ceremonies brings peace and justification to the dead souls. Bringing goodness to the present generation is entwined with it.
Tarpan is the main ritual performed during Pitru Paksha. They offer water and food to their ancestors during this ritual. Also, people perform Pind Daan when people offer food, usually in the form of rice balls. Usually, there are some restrictions for these rituals, as they are done by males of the family, usually the eldest son, for the welfare of the ancestors in the afterlife. It is observed to express appreciation and appreciation towards the deceased and forgive and set free the spirits of the dead. This is a period to pay respect to parents, observe the customs of the family, and ask for wealth and calmness.
Dos:
- Perform Shradh: It is a must-do task as someone would have to do the Shradh rights so that the ancestors of the performer are pleased with them.
- Offer Pind Daan: Performing Pind Daan at prominent places like Gaya or Haridwar is believed to have good results and provides peace to the departed souls.
- Tarpan: In this month, the Tarpan of sesame seeds, water, and Kusha should be performed regularly.
- Feed Brahmins and the Needy: Feeding Brahmins and the poor has been regarded as very auspicious and favorable to the person’s progenitors.
- Donate in the Name of Ancestors: Donations for various causes, especially food and clothes, in the memory of your forefathers are practiced.
- Maintain a Sattvic Diet: Intake of plain vegetarian food should be observed, there is a special emphasis on keeping cleanliness and purity while performing the rites.
- Seek Guidance from Priests: An opinion from wise priests regarding actions to be performed can achieve the purpose of effective performance of rituals.
Don’ts:
- Avoid Celebrations: For the duration of the ceremonials, Pitru Paksha, no participation in functions such as marriage and other joyous events or even festivals is allowed. No regard should be given to lightheartedness, courtesy, and gaiety.
- No Haircuts or Nail Cutting: One should not shave, cut hair, or trim nails during the period of Pitru Paksha since it is regarded as insulting to one’s ancestors since there is no respect for the ceremonies.
- Abstain from Non-Vegetarian Food and Alcohol: Bringing in non-veg, eggs, liquor, and several other food items of tamasic (impure) nature should be avoided, as these food substances are believed to hamper the cleanliness of rituals performed.
- Avoid Purchasing New Items: Even though having relatives and having mutual relationships is normal during pitru Paksha, it is still pertinent not to purchase any new garments, ornaments, or properties during this timeframe as it is a period of simplicity rather than materialism.
- No Marital Relations or Festivities: Marital relations and other forms of physical usage of one’s body like luxury should be avoided as well as any relationships since this period yearns for peace of mind. A simple and religious way of life is what this period demands.
- Don’t Disrespect Elders or Ancestors: In this period, there should be no anger towards or verbal abuse of ancestors or anyone else. Disrespect is not allowed as it could affect the success of the rituals, and this brings about consequences.
- No Traveling: A long trip during this time of Pitru Paksha is not recommended as this is a time to concentrate on promoting a proper focus on ancestors and the associated rituals.
Conclusion
Pitru Paksha is an occasion for thinking in remembrance of respect and offering salvation to the spirit of forefathers. Following the proper do’s and don’ts, you see to it that these rites are beneficial in uplifting the family’s spirits. If you need further assistance on how to carry out the rituals, Omega Astro welcomes you since it deals with all forms of spirituality and astrology.
